By Mildred Europa Taylor
Love is in the air with Valentine’s Day nearly upon us. If
you are one of the lucky ones who already have a
Valentine, then good for you. However, for the
unmarried ones, we tend to occasionally raise doubts
about the security of the relationship.
Sometimes, being the only person in someone’s life is hard
to tell, as so many people hide their objectives and pretend
you are the only one. It’s the dream of everyone to have
their partners to themselves without having to share them
with anyone else.
As Valentine approaches, many of us have already begun
wondering if we are the only one. So many relationship
experts have often come out with tips for you to know if it’s
just you. Some of them say you should check if: Your
partner is completely honest with you; He or she is
open; They invest their time in you; You become part and
parcel of their life; They don’t hold back and make you feel
secure, and ultimately; They make you feel safe.
But come on, many of our significant others are so used to
these tricks. They may be doing them but you never can tell
what else they are up to.
The fact is the rules of this game are so complicated that
they keep on changing every day. So here is the simple rule
to know if you are the only one: Put your partner’s picture
up on social media this Valentine’s Day.
If you are on Facebook, use him or her as your profile pic.
If
on WhatsApp, let him be your display picture (DP) or status.
Introduce him or her as your partner. Let the whole world
know their status in your life. And with that, you should be
able to tell if there are mutual boos or baes.
Yes! That’s just it. If you are not the only one in their lives,
the other side partners would likely pop up and the truth
would subsequently unfold.
Many say that when you put up a picture of your significant
other as your Facebook photo, it is a sign that you are
feeling insecure about your relationship.
A 2015 report titled ‘Can You Tell That I’m in a Relationship‘
by scientists from Canada and the US found that when
people are worried about their partner’s affections, they
tend to make the relationship more publicly visible.
But ignore all that. You are going to do this for only one day,
just to be sure that your partner is completely yours. So
would you do this? Leave a comment below. Credit: Face2Face Africa
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