This article is as much about birthdays as it is about gifts.
A good gift not only requires some level of thoughtfulness. It needs to be otherworldly.
Some women are stingy, even the loaded ones. So as we start the year, here are my guidelines on how to give gifts.
For starters, try your best and surprise him, either in timing or the nature of the gift itself.
Men scarcely get carried away
by such trivialities as gifts but if you go out of your way, he will acknowledge that you truly feel his vibe.
So shirts, underwear, perfume and such have been overdone. So if it is a material gift, I suppose something very expensive or out of the ordinary. The key is to find what he likes the most and serve him just that.
Material gifts are rarely satisfactory to men.
Men, unlike women, prefer the non-material gifts from women.
Cook for him his best meal. Or buy him the best rum in town. Or arrange his house well enough to give it the minimalist look that he so much cherishes.
Enlarge and frame his photo with ‘beautiful’ emblazoned on it in your handwriting. It is more personal. Something that will touch him.
Really, there is no science to giving. The golden rule is always think outside the box, be extreme (price wise) or offer a service he will relish for a long time, be it cooking or cleaning or best of all, get in your kinkiest mood and drive him wild.
Surprise him with the wildest things that he only fantasies about. This can scare him or backfire, but as long as you are tactical about it, he will like it.
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