Signs Your Spouse Is A Confirmed Cheat

If you would rather live in a bubble, then maybe you can stop reading this article here. If you would want to know if your spouse is a sex addict, then keep reading. 

 Now before you continue, we would like to add a disclaimer. 

The following  signs will most likely indicate that your spouse is cheating but this doesn’t mean that you should confront your spouse with this article, if you do not have solid evidence. 

Now that you’ve been cautioned let us simply break it down for you. 

Sign 1: Unaccounted time 

If your spouse’s time is often unaccounted for, and he/she is frequently unreachable by phone for hours at a time, then something fishy might be going on. 

Sign 2: Lying 

Many people who are having affairs lead a double life. So they have to lie to cover up their activities. They will say whatever is necessary to cover up. Working long hours or staying out with friends can be a cover for sexual encounters and rendezvous. 

Most of the time, you find that your spouse’s excuses are inconsistent with the facts, such as citing traffic problems on a Sunday morning. If your spouse always comes home late, and always has an excuse then this may be a red sign. 

Sign 3: Prevents you from accessing his computer or phone 

You may find that your spouse spends a lot of private time on the computer, the phone or at work. 

When you notice that your partner is on the computer, he/she may turn it off or go to another page. 

Your spouse may be very possessive of their cell phone to the extent that it never leaves their side. 

Your spouse may get angry if you so much as pick their phone up. If you are curious enough to access your spouse’s Facebook or other social media accounts you may see messages to other people with inappropriate sexual innuendos. 

To prevent this from happening, however your spouse may set up secret or hidden email accounts or social media profiles. 

Sign 4: Inappropriate sexual behavior and overt sexual advances to others 

You may notice or receive reports of your spouse making sexual advances to members of the opposite sex. 

Your spouse may also tell sexual jokes in public, touch people they don’t even know, give too many hugs, and always appears to be looking for something. 

Sign 5: You have an STD 

If you’re married to a sex addict, the first person you should take care of is yourself. If you get a sexually transmitted disease and you have only been with your spouse, then you need to ensure that this does not repeat itself in future. 

The ball is in your court. 

Note however that this is not an exclusive list so there may be other signs that you may also observe. The truth is that most spouses have a sixth sense that their partner is cheating, so if you do you may actually be right. 

Mamalette