Be it ZCAS, COPPERSTONE, CAVENDISH, LBTC, AIBT, UNILUS, UNZA, CBU, MU, NIPA, EVELYN HONE, NRDC, ZAMCOM the list is endless. Campus is where people learn what heartbreak is. And it hurts like nobody's business. And when it is those lengthy relationships (those that go on for more than two years), it can be worse. For young and impressionable individuals, they can be too ideal, daydreaming of a great love and marriage into the future. Only that reality invariably snaps them
out this reverie.
Campus is a place to experiment. Few love stories materialize in marriage.
Women mostly leave their campus boyfriends for older and more 'monied'
chaps. And men mostly leave campus girlfriends for younger and more
beautiful women.
So, if you're in campus and in a love that you think will end in marriage, maybe you should not be too optimistic. Just live for the moment, and when time comes for a breakup, lift your chin, and carry on with life.
My advice to concerned parties, is to never invest so much in anyone. It is a place you learn how to fall in and out of love. You learn the human nature as an adult. You learn what betrayal is. And from that you grow to make wiser decisions in matters love and relationships.
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